Mastering Love: A Journey Towards Authentic Connection –28: The Law of Trust 2

Last week’s conversation on self-trust struck a chord with many, highlighting a prevalent struggle in our journeys toward authentic connection. It's intriguing, yet not entirely surprising, that many of us grapple with self-trust, a foundational aspect of our being, while simultaneously seeking it in others.

The challenge of trusting oneself is multifaceted, affecting not just our personal decisions but our relationships and overall sense of self. The irony is palpable - we are quick to seek trust from others yet often falter in granting it to ourselves. This paradox is especially evident in those who, despite their inherent brightness, shy away from domains like politics, citing a lack of trust in their ability to remain true to their values amidst perceived darkness. It becomes more shocking when you feel the vibe from those who see themselves as the light of the world and salt of the earth.

Isn’t this why many of our nations are led by those we don’t even trust?

Today I will take a look into some of the reasons individuals might find it challenging to trust themselves:

Past Failures or Mistakes

• People often struggle with self-trust after experiencing failures or making significant mistakes. These experiences can lead to self-doubt, causing individuals to question their judgment and abilities. The fear of repeating past errors can paralyze decision-making and undermine confidence in one's intuition. I know a number of people who haven’t dared another relationship because of low confidence no thanks to their past relationships forgetting that a previous mistake doesn’t mean they won’t succeed if they creatively dare a new one.

Criticism from Others

• Constant criticism from parents, teachers, peers, or society can erode self-trust. If individuals are frequently told they're wrong, incapable, or inadequate, they may internalize these messages, leading to a belief that they can't trust their own thoughts or decisions.

As we further explore the intricacies of trust, both in ourselves and in our relationships, let's remember that self-trust is the bedrock upon which all forms of trust are built. Without it, our search for genuine connection and love remains incomplete. Truth is if the energy you constantly put out is lack of self-trust you are likely going to attract relationships that will betray your trust.

May God bring you the desired healing and freedom.

 Reflection Questions:

1. Reflect on a past failure or mistake. How has it influenced your ability to trust yourself, especially in making decisions or entering new relationships?
2. Can you recall an instance where external criticism impacted your self-trust? How did you respond, and what might you do differently now to protect your sense of self?
3. What strategies can you implement to rebuild self-trust, ensuring that you can stand firm in your decisions and relationships despite past challenges or external negativity?

I am a Saviour

Praise Fowowe